How to Effectively Deliver Bestman Wedding Speeches
Posted by Ricky Bosc on Monday, July 11, 2011
You as the best man may probably be so tensed now that the wedding day is fast approaching. It is because you are about to deliver a speech that will honor the most special and important day in a couples life. Stated below are some steps that you may follow for you to have a good speech for wedding day. Prepare a note of your speech and bring it with you in case you go blank during the toast.
I am sure you do not want to read your speech off a piece of paper, but rather in a brief outline on a note card, which can help you make sure you don't forget any important parts. In most successful bestman toasts, the speaker would usually add some tasteful and refined humor. You should remember that a good joke is especially valuable as an icebreaker and a comic relief after a heartwarming story. However, do not force yourself to be so funny.
In case you are not too confident to deliver a punch line, then it would be better if you will just tell a story about the groom or about how the two met and fell in love. But you must never talk about something that will humiliate the couple such as their past relationships or anything derogatory to the groom and the bride. On the Internet, you can surely find lots of bestman wedding speeches templates, which you can either purchase or avail for free.
These templates will serve as your basis, so it is highly advisable not to copy them. What is important is you are able to share the important details about their relationship. You could use a quote or say something that comes from your heart as you wish them the best in their lives together. Try to keep the toast between 2-3 minutes.
Links
Bestman Toasts Blog
Bestman Wedding Speeches Blog
I am sure you do not want to read your speech off a piece of paper, but rather in a brief outline on a note card, which can help you make sure you don't forget any important parts. In most successful bestman toasts, the speaker would usually add some tasteful and refined humor. You should remember that a good joke is especially valuable as an icebreaker and a comic relief after a heartwarming story. However, do not force yourself to be so funny.
In case you are not too confident to deliver a punch line, then it would be better if you will just tell a story about the groom or about how the two met and fell in love. But you must never talk about something that will humiliate the couple such as their past relationships or anything derogatory to the groom and the bride. On the Internet, you can surely find lots of bestman wedding speeches templates, which you can either purchase or avail for free.
These templates will serve as your basis, so it is highly advisable not to copy them. What is important is you are able to share the important details about their relationship. You could use a quote or say something that comes from your heart as you wish them the best in their lives together. Try to keep the toast between 2-3 minutes.
Links
Bestman Toasts Blog
Bestman Wedding Speeches Blog